人生哲理

 

做人，还真不简单。

摘自网络

智慧言辞

小成靠智，大成靠德。
有大作為的人，往往都是德行高尚的人。

知深淺、明尊卑、懂高低、識輕重、講規矩、守道義，
不以術而以德、不以謀而以道、不以權而以禮。

獨處時，超脫自然，管好自己的心；
待人時，將心比心，管好自己的口。
方圓做人，圓通做事，寧靜致遠，自我反思，則事事順心、處處安心.

如何高人一等？

 

人生智慧何其多，能高人一等的方法不仅仅如此而已。

骠叔金句

8招应对瓶颈

杜月笙語錄

 

旧上海老大杜月笙语录，值得深思！！

1．不要怕被別人利用，人家利用你说明你还有用！
2．吃是实功，賭是对沖，嫖是落空！
3．花一文钱要收到十文钱的效果，這才是花錢能手！
4．做事要做到刀切豆腐兩面光！

 5．做人有三碗面最难吃：人面、場面、情面！

6．对人必須誠懇，即使有人欺瞞我于一時，我總能以誠字來感動他，使他心悅誠服。我的處世之道，盡在一個誠字，你們舉一反三，方始可以談交友。

7．杜先生還曾經對一個有文化的朋友說過：你原來是一條鯉魚，修行了500年跳了龍門變成龍了，而我呢？原來是條泥鰍，先修煉了1000年變成了鯉魚；然後在修煉500年才跳了龍門，倘若我們倆一起失敗，那你還是一條鯉魚，而我可就變成泥鰍，你說我做事情怎麽能不謹慎呢？

8．頭等人，有本事、沒脾氣； 二等人，有本事、有脾氣； 末等人，沒本事、大脾氣。
9．杜月笙有句挂在嘴上的話：小心得天下，大意失荊州！
10．人活在世上要靠兩樣東西，膽識和智慧。
11．錦上添花的事情讓別人去做,我只做雪中送炭的事情。

12．錢財用的完，交情吃不光。所以別人存錢，我存交情。存錢再多不過金山銀海，交情用起來好比天地難量！

13．每月存款摺上多幾個零不算你有多少錢，花出去多少錢才算你有多少錢。
14．前半夜想想自己，後半夜想想別人！
15．君子我不怕，毛賊我不惹。

沉默刻苦的时光

 

 每一个优秀的人，都有一段沉默的時光。
那一段時光，是付出了很多努力、忍受孤獨和寂寞、不抱怨不诉苦。
那是日后说起时，连自己都能被感动的日子。

說話的藝術

好文抄来分享：

有一句說一千句，是作家，這叫文采。
有一句說一百句，是演說家，這叫口才。
有一句說十句，是教授，這叫學問。
有一句說一句，是律師，這叫嚴謹。
說一句留一句，外交家，叫辭令。
有十句說一句，是政客，這叫韜略。
有一百句說一句，是和尚，叫玄機。
有一千句說一句，叫遺言。

摘自：Allen の 心靈語錄

不是孤单一人

 

也许，你觉得非常孤单；

也许，你不晓得究竟还有谁关心你；

或许，这只是一时的沮丧，

使你在困局里迷惘，

而没有察觉，其实还有人正在关心你。

精句

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一滴水 就可以折射太阳的光辉；
一束花 亦可以证明爱情的力量。

一种快乐 就是看到身边的人都被你逗笑、充满喜悦；
一种幸福 就是看到身边的人对你的关爱、无微不至。



别太注重一个人的容貌,
因它不代表内心的真善美。

别太重视金钱或财富,
因它根本就是生不带来死不带去！

珍惜当下 多疼爱身边人,
每天带着微笑迎人就是一种幸福！

带眼识人

转载自面子书PAT
原文：别说你单纯 现在就教你认人
作者：Siaw Chin Ivy, May 25, 2010

1、看一个男人的品位，要看他的袜子。

2、看一个女人是否养尊处优，要看她的手。

3、看一个人的气血，要看他的头发。

4、看一个人的心术，要看他的眼神。

5、看一个人的身价，要看他的对手。

6、看一个人的底牌，要看他身边的好友。

7、看一个人的性格，要看他的字写得怎样。

8、看一个人是否快乐，不要看笑容，要看清晨梦醒时的一刹表情。

9、看一个人的胸襟，要看他如何面对失败及被人出卖。

10、看两个人的关系，要看发生意外时，另一方的紧张程度。

11、如果你想知道一个人是不是真的爱你，那要看他是不是在开心的时候想到你，
        而不是悲伤的时候。

12、如果你想知道一个人是不是你的知己，那要看他是否和你心有灵犀，
        而不是要你什么都告诉他。

13、如果你想知道一个人是不是你真正的朋友，那要看他在你危难的时候，
        会不会为你两肋插刀，而不是天天和你一起吃吃喝喝。

14、如果你想知道一个人是否有爱心，那要看他是否喜欢小动物。

15、如果你想知道一个人是否有修养，那要看他在公交车上会不会为老人，
        儿童让座位。

16、如果你想知道是否有素质，那要看他是不是爱贪小便宜。

17、如果你想知道一个人是否有心胸，那要看他是否在背后坏别人。

18、如果你想知道一个人是否在说谎，那你要看他在说话时的眼神，
        眼神告诉你一切。

19、如果你想知道一个人是否在乎你，那你要看他是否记住你曾经说过的话。

20、如果你想知道一个人是否牵挂你，那要看他在天凉的时候是否想到提醒你加衣.

21.如果你想知道你在那个人心中的分量如何,那要看他是否记住你的生日或纪念日.

22.如果想知道一个男人是否讲究,那要看他的头发是否清洁,理顺.

23.如果你想知道一个男人是否值得你去爱,那要看他是否有爱心,责任心,
      而不是有没有地位和金钱.

24.如果你想知道一个女人是否值得你去爱,那要看她的内在,而不是外表,
      要看她是不是因为可爱而美丽,而不是因为美丽而可爱

Quotes from Albert Einstein

1. "Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius -- and a lot of courage -- to move in the opposite direction."
2. "Imagination is more important than knowledge."
3. "Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love."
4. "I want to know God's thoughts; the rest are details."
5. "The hardest thing in the world to understand is the income tax."
6. "Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one."
7. "The only real valuable thing is intuition."
8. "A person starts to live when he can live outside himself."
9. "I am convinced that He (God) does not play dice."
10. "God is subtle but he is not malicious."
11. "Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character."
12. "I never think of the future. It comes soon enough."
13. "The eternal mystery of the world is its comprehensibility."
14. "Sometimes one pays most for the things one gets for nothing."
15. "Science without religion is lame. Religion without science is blind."
16. "Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new."
17. "Great spirits have often encountered violent opposition from weak minds."
18. "Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler."
19. "Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen."
20. "Science is a wonderful thing if one does not have to earn one's living at it."
21. "The secret to creativity is knowing how to hide your sources."
22. "The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education."
23. "God does not care about our mathematical difficulties. He integrates empirically."
24. "The whole of science is nothing more than a refinement of everyday thinking."
25. "Technological progress is like an axe in the hands of a pathological criminal."
26. "Peace cannot be kept by force. It can only be achieved by understanding."
27. "The most incomprehensible thing about the world is that it is comprehensible."
28. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
29. "Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything he learned in school."
30. "The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing."
31. "Do not worry about your difficulties in Mathematics. I can assure you mine are still greater."
32. "Equations are more important to me, because politics is for the present, but an equation is something for eternity."
33. "If A is a success in life, then A equals x plus y plus z. Work is x; y is play; and z is keeping your mouth shut."
34. "Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the the universe."
35. "As far as the laws of mathematics refer to reality, they are not certain, as far as they are certain, they do not refer to reality."
36. "Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods."
37. "I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones."
38. "In order to form an immaculate member of a flock of sheep one must, above all, be a sheep."
39. "The fear of death is the most unjustified of all fears, for there's no risk of accident for someone who's dead."
40. "Too many of us look upon Americans as dollar chasers. This is a cruel libel, even if it is reiterated thoughtlessly by the Americans themselves."
41. "Heroism on command, senseless violence, and all the loathsome nonsense that goes by the name of patriotism -- how passionately I hate them!"
42. "No, this trick won't work...How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love?"
43. "My religion consists of a humble admiration of the illimitable superior spirit who reveals himself in the slight details we are able to perceive with our frail and feeble mind."
44. "Yes, we have to divide up our time like that, between our politics and our equations. But to me our equations are far more important, for politics are only a matter of present concern. A mathematical equation stands forever."
45. "The release of atom power has changed everything except our way of thinking...the solution to this problem lies in the heart of mankind. If only I had known, I should have become a watchmaker."
46. "Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it when a man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary prejudices but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence."
47. "The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed."
48. "A man's ethical behavior should be based effectually on sympathy, education, and social ties; no religious basis is necessary. Man would indeeded be in a poor way if he had to be restrained by fear of punishment and hope of reward after death."
49. "The further the spiritual evolution of mankind advances, the more certain it seems to me that the path to genuine religiosity does not lie through the fear of life, and the fear of death, and blind faith, but through striving after rational knowledge."
50. "Now he has departed from this strange world a little ahead of me. That means nothing. People like us, who believe in physics, know that the distinction between past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion."
51. "You see, wire telegraph is a kind of a very, very long cat. You pull his tail in New York and his head is meowing in Los Angeles. Do you understand this? And radio operates exactly the same way: you send signals here, they receive them there. The only difference is that there is no cat."
52. "One had to cram all this stuff into one's mind for the examinations, whether one liked it or not. This coercion had such a deterring effect on me that, after I had passed the final examination, I found the consideration of any scientific problems distasteful to me for an entire year."
53. "...one of the strongest motives that lead men to art and science is escape from everyday life with its painful crudity and hopeless dreariness, from the fetters of one's own ever-shifting desires. A finely tempered nature longs to escape from the personal life into the world of objective perception and thought."
54. "He who joyfully marches to music rank and file, has already earned my contempt. He has been given a large brain by mistake, since for him the spinal cord would surely suffice. This disgrace to civilization should be done away with at once. Heroism at command, how violently I hate all this, how despicable and ignoble war is; I would rather be torn to shreds than be a part of so base an action. It is my conviction that killing under the cloak of war is nothing but an act of murder."
55. 
    "A human being is a part of a whole, called by us _universe_, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest... a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty."
    "Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts." (Sign hanging in Einstein's office at Princeton)
    

Source: Unknown.

Author: Of course the late and undisputed Physicist Albert Einstein